Mess Magic Money

Yeah yeah yeah. You want to be a better person. You want to live your best life and all that stuff that Oprah talks about. But do you really? After all, just about anyone will tell you they wish things could be...

A woman said to me the other day, “I’m not interested in being powerful.” The statement made me curious about what having power meant to her. It made me protective of my own power. Shonda Rhimes, a powerful woman if...

Have you noticed that whenever we want to change anything about our lives we tend to focus on getting something, or having something, or doing something? We put our attention on taking action. I have to eat less. I...

Coaching can change your life in an instant. It can also make you a better coach.  In Episode 66 I told you all about my so-called Pam Slim Smackdown nearly a decade ago when I was in training to become “the best...

Did you hear the one about the woman who wanted to start her own business but she was so afraid to do it because, in her own mind, she’d already failed?   She said she couldn’t stop the repetitive (negative) loop in...

Do you know someone who appears to be grouchy most of the time? It’s because they’re telling themselves a grouchy story day in and day out. People like that are kinda dangerous… they can mess up your day if you let...

I love a good story, don’t you? So why do we tell such horror-able stories about ourselves? In Episode 72 of MESS MAGIC MONEY we’re going to take a closer look at the lousy no good rotten stinkin’ scary stories we...

WHAT IF everything you say you want, all your plans, all your dreams… what if all of it is being contradicted by your subconscious mind? You can see the havoc that would cause with your life, right? That’s the thing...

Once you know what you want, how will you make sure you get it? In episode 69 of MESS MAGIC MONEY I gave you an assignment: articulate with clarity what it is you want. People will often lament the fact that life...

You can’t have what you want if you don’t even know what you want. Sounds obvious, I know, but if I asked you right now what it is you really really REALLY want, how would you answer? Sometimes when I ask women this...

Is naming your coaching business making you crazier than a politician telling the truth on opposite day? (That’s pret-ty darn crazy!) I’ve seen so many coaches spin themselves in circles trying to come up with “the...

If you saw yourself across the room at a party, would you want to meet you? It’s one of my favorite questions to ask clients: “WHO DO YOU THINK YOU ARE?”  How do you see yourself? Why are you the way you are? Do you...